There’s a pattern in what I listen to.
Men who push away.
Men who pretend they don’t care.
Men who believe they’re the damage.
Not because I romanticize chaos.
But because I understand fracture.
Music that sits in that space will always find me.
Reading Trauma Mama: Velvet & Taboo
Where the quiet woman writes dangerously.
There’s a pattern in what I listen to.
Men who push away.
Men who pretend they don’t care.
Men who believe they’re the damage.
Not because I romanticize chaos.
But because I understand fracture.
Music that sits in that space will always find me.
About Samantha Kamstra I’m a mom, wife, and storyteller writing about motherhood, marriage, and healing from childhood trauma — one honest reflection at a time. 🌿 Through love, self-awareness, and growth, I’m learning to break generational cycles and nurture myself along the way. 💕 This space is for every woman walking her own path toward healing and wholeness — a reminder that you are not alone, and that every small act of love and awareness is part of your becoming. ✨ Healing, growing, and loving — one day, one choice, one breath at a time. View more posts