You once believed healing meant forgiveness —
but now, you understand it’s about reclaiming what was yours
before anyone taught you to be small.
It isn’t about being soft all the time,
or graceful when you’re breaking.
It’s about choosing yourself
in every breath,
in every no,
in every moment you decide
not to shrink back into the person
they told you to be.
You are not the pain they caused.
You are the pulse that kept you alive
when no one else noticed you were fading.
There is power in survival,
but there is divinity in becoming.
You have become the storm and the stillness.
The wound and the wisdom.
The before and the after.
This is what it means to reclaim yourself —
not to return to who you were,
but to rise as who you were always meant to be.
💌
You are not healing anymore.
You are becoming.
